Hi Sherrine,
I know what you mean.
I got the first inklings of the fibro illness, in my early 30s after a bad flu and a traumatic situation within my body.
Over the years I had always wondered why when I sat in the sun I felt awful (that started with a pregnancy 28 years ago.
I had no guidance from any doctor but I just stopped sitting in the sun.
As a result my skin is not like my friends who look weathered etc.
A good thing non?
I have always had a weaker right side.That is a fact. I know this flies in the face of all the medical info gathered in fibro 101, and elsewhere, but I can assure you I would have been a goner a long time ago if these pains were something else!
My rheumatologist see no need for extra concern.
So I can say with assurance that these are fibro pains.
Stress is a big factor.
In fact, I cant "stress" that enough!
In other words, I have my own private hell with fibro.
I welcome discussion about this.
tair