Dr. Searching

Hi Everybody! Hope I'm allowed to ask this question...I saw in the rules no research studies etc., but wasn't sure about this. Am becoming frustrated in finding a Dr. who actually works with Fibro. I find many false leads in researching....ugh. Are you allowed to recommend Dr.'s on here?

I am in Southern Delaware, which makes me accessible to MD, PA and NJ. Can you give some possible specific questions I can ask when calling individual offices and inquiring if they work with Fibro patients. I am finding many who automatically say yes, but won't really give/answer any specifics. They just push to make an appt. Which I have done for consult, taking weeks to get appt etc., only to find a Dr. who does not really know anything, even the basics of symptoms which could be found on any site info. Of course then to find another Dr., I need to get another referral etc. I am worried I will then get the "Dr. Shopping" title. Not too mention the $ factor of co-pays etc. Ugh