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Posted 2/14/2013 5:01 PM (GMT 0)
Happy Valentines day to everyone, I have been going throug a pretty rough flare for a while now, I want to say 3-4 weeks and it doesn't feel like it's going to let up any time soon.

I really want the pain to be over with already. I guess on the positive side of things I'm grateful that I am not working right now with this going on! I probably shouldn't complain about it because I know things could be worse. But between quitting smoking and going for so long with this flare as well as not sleeping, I feel like I have been run into the ground.

I am so tired of being tired. My father in law is in one of his oh so pleasant cranky moods and I feel like I would rather stick my head in the ground than deal with other peolpe today.

I am usually pretty patient but that has run out and I just feel about as empty as I can be. I just want a good nights sleep, be around happy grateful people, And go from there. I really needed to vent, I do hope everyone is having a great Valentines day and thank you for letting  me share :-)   By the way what is this emotion saposed to be ( redface )? It looks sleepy or bored lol.

Posted 2/14/2013 6:01 PM (GMT 0)
Thanks for venting Lisa. I can relate. I am so sick and tired of being sick and tired!!! And it is true positive people really help us, negative ones are such a drain.
Wishing you pleasant days and sleepfilled nights.
Susan
Posted 2/14/2013 6:30 PM (GMT 0)
Hope your flare is over soon. I'm sure we all understand--it can seem like forever, sometimes. But you sound like an optimist, despite the ongoing pain. I think you have the right spirit. And I know what you mean, talking about dealing with other people on rough days. On days like that, I think I need to hibernate!

Feel (all) better soon. Best wishes and prayers.
Posted 2/14/2013 6:50 PM (GMT 0)
When you are in pain, it's hard dealing with other people but you don't have much of a choice.  When your husband is home, you take your break, head to bed, maybe watch some TV before you fall asleep and let him handle his father.  You are doing it all day, if I'm correct. 

 

Just have a nice meal, a pleasant discussion and then it should be YOUR time.  You are only one person so don't try to handle everything.  I think the stress of this is causing you some pain...and then not sleeping is adding to it.  Start taking care of yourself.  You are no good to anyone if you are in misery.

 

I have no idea what that icon represents and neither does anyone else.  LOL  That's why it's never used.  tongue

 

Sherrine

Posted 2/14/2013 8:23 PM (GMT 0)
It's bored (yawning).

When I'm in one of my flares I just get away from everyone, because I'm bound to say or do something I'll regret later.

Hang in there. Go on a long drive to nowhere and find a nice quiet spot with a relaxing view and let out a scream /or a good cry. It can be a good vent and you won't have to deal with others fretting over you when all you need is a good release.
Posted 2/14/2013 9:15 PM (GMT 0)
Lisa,

Flare pain is crummy, that is something we all understand and can agree on. Not all flares are equal, some are easier to get through, and unfortunately there are the flares that can bring you to your knees. It is fair to say, we all do really understand :)

Fibromites are some of the strongest and most caring people. Do take time for yourself and when you need a good cry, have one. I'm also about taking time to meditate and BREATHE...it has helped me during more flares than I can count.

You will be in my prayers that your flare ends soon!

Hugs, Robin
Posted 2/15/2013 4:17 AM (GMT 0)
Maybe you can hint to your husband that you deserve a massage when this flare is done. It is valentines day, after all.
If you're like me its hard to rest when you need to if others need you. That and not sleeping can be contributing to the longevity of this flare. I know its such a stressful situation and I wish I knew how to help. I'm definitely willing to read your rants and let you vent. We are all here for you.
Posted 2/15/2013 4:26 AM (GMT 0)
Maybe you could talk to your father-in-laws doctor and he could get you some kind of in house help for him .Sorry, can't think what that's called right now, If the doctor would do that it might ease some stress. It seem to me you need help with him. If you cant get in home care could some of your husband family help out. Maybe before bed you should take time for yourself, maybe take long warm bath or shower .I do hope your flare ends soon & you sleep like a baby tonight.
Posted 2/15/2013 8:11 PM (GMT 0)
Thanks to you all for your wonderful posts! I also thank you for allowing me to vent and being supportive to that. Couchtater thank you for your advice of going to a place where I could be by myself. I didn't scream but I cryed for what seemed like an hour. It was very helpful. I live in a very stressful environment and it is hard to get through that sometimes. I feel better and may go to theraphy to get through the rest. Thank you all again smurf
Posted 2/16/2013 3:34 AM (GMT 0)
It really helps to let it all out. It lightens the load a great deal.
Glad you felt better.
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