Hi, Eileen, and welcome! Some think that fibro and MPS are one and the same. They are so similar. My massage therapist says she thinks I have MPS too because of the overlapping of the muscles that I get.
If you do see a massage therapist, gentle massage is the best for fibro. Deep massages could make you have more pain. My massage therapist has been trained in both of these illness along with a myriad of other illnesses. She is a member of the American Massage Therapy Association and they have to continue to take classes in order to remain a member. So they are quite knowledgeable. If you decide to go this route, here is a link to see if there is a massage therapist in your area that does massages for these illnesses.
http://www.amtamassage.org/findamassage/index.html?utm_source=%2Ffindamassage%2Flocator.aspx&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=redirect
As far as pain management goes for me, I use ibuprofen, Tylenol, malic acid/magnesium supplements, vitamin D3 supplements, and a muscle relaxer. I also walk daily as a form of gentle exercise and I pace myself when doing things. All of the above help with pain and fatigue. We all are different, though, so what works for one doesn't necessarily work for another.
As Debbie mentioned, please read Fibro 101...the first thread on the forum. There are a lot of good links about fibro and you will learn a lot there. There are links about the supplements that I mentioned and how they work in the body, too. We do need to be our own advocates with this illness so it's important to learn as much as we can about it.
I'm looking forward to getting to know you better. Don't hesitate to ask questions because we are here to help you. Hope to hear more from you soon.
Sherrine