I had a hysterectomy in 2000. When i was going into the surgical suite I emphasized that I had Fibromyalgia. When I was coming out after the surgery, I was screaming in pain and this somewhat older nurse was standing over me yelling "ÿou have to relax your muscles, you are creating your own pain by tensing up".I tried to explain to her I had no control over the muscles, they were reacting to the stressors my body had been put through. They should have given me a shot of valium along with whatever pain meds they were hitting me up with, that only made me nauseous.See if you can find a surgeon who understands Fibro.