There are times I get mad over nothing, sometimes just grumpy, other times I misunderstood something. I grew up in a house where the words, 'I'm sorry' were not said. That was one of the biggest things I had to adjust to being married. Those are two of the most important words in our language. My DH and I say them and we give each other the confidence to know it will be accepted in a loving attitude. Then we seal it w/ a kiss. A win-win situation in my book.
We are still learning about each other and we have been married a long time. Sometimes it is what you say, sometimes it is just the day of the wk you say it. lol Everybody has moods. Try to fix things b/f they fester. I also do like Chutz, sometimes I just walk away till I'm calmer and can talk about something instead of getting mad. I need to be in control of my emotions to be rational, sometimes when I stop and think about it, I can work it out in my own head.
God bless. Alice.