All of these drugs, SSRI's, SNRI's and mood stabilzers have side effects which some can tolerate, others cannot. They work for awhile, then stop so you have to updose or change to another drug then go through the side effects again. Weaning off them can be nasty. Like LupusMomma I thought I was going crazy when I got off Lexapro although I did not taper properly. The Brain Zaps were horrible as well as headaches. You have to weigh the pros and cons and decide. Is the weight gain worth mental peace? I wish you luck in you decision. Oh...from all I have read in my husband's mental health journals, Effexor is the hardest antidepressant to wean from...very powerful and some of the extended time capsules are tiny beads that you have to count when you taper. Just my opinion...
Donna