Posted 1/21/2014 12:57 AM (GMT 0)
I really just need to vent. I am so stressed right now and its causing my pain to increase. My place of work might be closing. We have been renting a location and its sold we have 3 months left before we have to be out, very hard to find a place here that suits our needs we need a lot, a office and parts show room as well as extra tall garage bays. We have been looking and not finding anything. Because our location is newer he may just shut the doors. On top of that we were suppose to move in with our friend and share a house due to rent being cheaper and its alot bigger this was decided before christmas and we were suppose to here from the landlord the first week after new years. Well we still havent heard from her. I keep asking my friend for the contact info and never get it. After we hd decided to move in my friend became more possesive of us trying to be with us ever moment of the day and night we thought it was just due to the time of year. Well yesterday we had a girls day and had one of our other friends over to the new place. Well she was there my friend were suppose to move in with showed her around and was saying some things that made me wonder, one example was that she may not be able to afford rent and will borrow from her parents, other comments she made were about my husband soon being her husband and that she needs to talk "Her husband" into buying a bigger tv. I put a stop to that right there and then. I know its been a joke with us before but it was just that a joke. later that evening my husband had asked our roomate to be if she was planning on buying a tv she told us yes, my husband told her that it was no pressure cause he was looking to buy one too but if she was going to get one it was no use in us buying another one we already have two and she only has a old small one. But we all wanted another tv as there is a den and a livingroom so we didnt have to watch all the same thing. Well today she comes to me and starts going off about how she doesnt watch tv (which is all she does when she visits here) and going crazy about how she wants to decorate the place her way all along we were all discussing how to decorate and shooting ideas at each other, i thought we were all working together i guess we wernt she went crazy on me she wasnt yelling but everytime she said something it was a back track on what she had said to us before.
So now my husband and i are now wondering if its best for us just to walk away i will lose a friend but its better then losing my husband due to him and i fighting over lies she says or us moving there and end up covering her rent or something. she also hasnt put the gas or hydro in her name which she was suppose to in january. I am so worried now and stressed the end of the month is coming and if we do move we need to give notice soon. I am going to talk to her tomorrow but dont know what to do or say. My hubby just wants to walk away and me being me and thinking about money thinks even if she borrows from her parents thats not my problem as long as stuffs paid, hubbies worried that her half of stuff wont be paid expecpecially canle and net witch she doesnt have right now but was excited to get, now she tells me she doesn't watch tv...?
My mind is all over the place right now, my hubby was so nice he told me he would play bad guy because he knows that my friend understands my pain and i need someone intown to talk to, it stresses me thinking that she will now bash him if he takes the bad guy role. our other thought is to just not give notice and not push her for landlord info then when the place comes up for rent take it.. yup that means i lose my friend still....
Just so stressed 3 months and hubby and i may not have a job (we work at same place) and cheaper rent would have been so much better. Just so lost. I want to cry scream break things. Sorry this was so long i needed to get it out!