Feeling real depressed

{{{{{{{{{{{{Joelene}}}}}}}}}}  I would definitely be divorcing the SOB.  I don't think you need more than one consult, as the law is the law and they will all tell you the same thing.  One thing to remember is to ask for a QDRO (qualified domestic relations order.)  This is a separate document that must be signed and ordered by the judge at the time of the divorce.  It is specifically for part of your husband's pension, if he has one.  He does not have to currently be drawing it.  The amount is based on the years he worked in said business and the length of time you were married.  I seem to remember your saying that he, or you and he together, own several businesses.  In this case, don't forget any pension he may have gotten from the military, any IRA he has, etc.  I'm sure that profits from the business would also be divided, especially if you worked in those businesses, which I believe you said you did.  If I am confusing you with someone else, forgive me.

I'm alone today, but don't mind.  I slept very late and have time to read, surf the web, etc.

Hugs,

Connie

Joelene, I am so sorry you are being treated that way  . I am alone today too, my husband is here (asleep) as usual and most everyone I know is enjoying the holiday with there loved ones.  I hope you take him for everything you can gal,

Judith

Joelene, I'm feeling pretty well.  Thanks for asking.  I can tell I've put on some weight and I'm not thrilled about that.  I think a lot of it is from eating out of boredom, and also because it's been too darned hot to get out and walk much.

Right now, I'm keeping an eye on TS Hannah, while LA and MS are looking at Gustav.  We will probably get some of the outer rain bands from Gustav.  I pray those poor folks in N.O. won't get wiped out again.

Hugs,

Connie