This is very helpful. I really didn't think of hubby's complaints of "not sleeping" could be because he feels so tired all the time. When he told the Dr. he couldn't sleep, I was stunned because to me that seems like that is all he does do. But, now that I think about
it, it does make sense that he feels tired all the time and assumes he isn't sleeping...also my hubby's memory is failing and getting worse all the time and he likely can't remember one day (or night) from another and can't recall if he sleep....all he knows is that he is so tired.
Also, because of his years of taking care of elephants, (way before he was ill) his nightly schedule was to get up at midnight, and 3:00 and 6:00 to check the elephants. He has always continued to follow that schedule even though he hasn't cared for elephants for 7-8 years. But he has forgotten that was always his schedule. I remind him, but by the next day, he has forgotten again.
Thanks for the insight. This is helpful for us as we stagger down this road we wish we didn't have to take.
Angie1953