Hello everyone,
I suppose I should start with a summary of our situation.
My dad is currently in the hospital trying to get his Ascites under control. They took 3.4L from him 2 days ago and are going to take some more today. The fluid is largely collecting "down stairs" - if you know what I mean. We're talking coconuts here. May make for a great party trick at a frat party, but that's about it.
Over the last few months we have dealt with high ammonia levels and the corresponding hepatic encephalopathy. Really not fun seeing my dad become unaware of even basic facts. That seems to be somewhat under control with the Lactulose.
Additionally his blood sugar levels are all over the place and he's suffering from an umbilical hernia that makes life hell for him.
I read quite a few of the posts here last night and it seems like this is all part of the process.
My questions are really for those who have gone through the process.
1. Where does my dad really seem like he is in the process? His most recent MELD was a 12, but it's been as high as 17. Maybe this is an impossible question to answer, but with this disease it's just terrible not knowing if you're a year away from a resolution or 2 months. Just some personal experiences would he helpful to maybe put a timeline on this thing.
2. Is anyone familiar with getting an out of state transplant? We live in WA state but my dad's care is done by the Mayo Clinic in Phoenix. How does this work? You get a call in the middle of the night and run to the airport? With only a finite amount of time to get down there, this seems tough. You go to the nearest ticket counter and tell them you need a private charter or something?
3. My dad is currently on SSD and is paying for his insurance through COBRA. Does anyone know of a solution once his COBRA benefits run their course? I think you can apply for Medicare once you are on SSD for 2 years, but he won't be able to stay on COBRA that long. Obviously, paying for individual insurance at that point would be beyond ridiculous in cost. I did stumble on a plan offered by the government, but it requires you to be without insurance for 6 months before you can enroll. Obviously, not an option.
Maybe with this question, I am just being delusional and there is just no way that this process drags on long enough for that to be a concern. If that's the case, please feel free to tell me so.
I am sure I will have many more questions, but I am just trying to get some answers to questions that doctors seem really hesitant to answer. I get that everyone is different, but there has to be some kind of a trend to leverage to really understand where we stand at this point.
Thanks in advance for your help.
Tim