Thank you all for your nice words and thoughts. Butterflythree..sending thoughts to you and your husband.
Shelly, yes, she is in adult foster home as she is unable to completely care for herself. I would say at this point in time she is suffering mild confusion on a regular basis, otherwise her wits are about her. It seems alot of her short term memory is what is affected.
You don't know how much I appreciate your honesty. The one thing that I was not aware of was the pain factor.... That is (obviously) good to know and keep a watch out for.
The Dr. has informed me that her sodium is running 125 (not sure how high that is) they have cut back on her Bumex (Diuretic) in order to control the sodium, however, now she is retaining more fluid in her abdomen which is causing the discomfort and the increased blood pressure. It really does seem to be quite a balancing act.