Paris, I'm sorry I didn't have a chance to get back to you until now. Regarding the lower extremity pain, is it due to the edema? If so, massaging the feet with the thumbs, pushing the fluid upward and continuing this little by little, all the way to the knee, will offer temporary relief. The TEDS hose also help a lot, though they're uncomfortable and difficult to put on.
Do you have any family or friends nearby? Neighbors? You are going to get burned out fast if you don't get some respite care so that you can get out by yourself a few hours a week. You cannot do this all by yourself.
Please let us know how things are going.
Hugs,
Connie