Hi Jayne Louise,
Welcome to the forum.
We are a group of patients and caregivers of liver patients.
Our senior moderator will have a lot to post about
your case as hers is nearly the same, but she is out and about
this morning and will post in later.
I'm a caregiver and we have had a similar ride. Several posting here have recently been through the transplant process, so you should get lots of advice.
First, I'm sorry it has come to this, but barring transplant, your options have expired.
Mike has had Hep C for 40 years but they didn't find his tumor until he was well through the evaluation process. He was transplanted May 1, 2011 and is doing pretty well post transplant. He is 62 and glad to be alive.
UNOS allows posting when the patient has a MELD score of 15. Most centers post the folks, but they don't allocate livers by time on the list initially, but rather by the seriousness of the patient's illness. So a patient with a MELD of 40 from a poisoning or 38 from Auto Immune hep, would get their turn at bat before one with a MELD of 25 or so.
YOu can sign up at more than one transplant center or transplant region if you have the funds and flexiblty to fly off to a center when your number comes up. That's how Steve Jobs had a shorter wait time than many.
AND, the US is divided into regions and the donor organs go to the region of orgin FIRST and then may be sent off to other regions, but the supply always lags behind the needs. This leads to some difference in average wait times and average MELD at transplant from region to region.
I am in Florida as is Connie, the moderator I spoke of above. Mike and Connie were both transplanted at 22 or 23, I forget exactly just now. They were both given an extra few points becuse in addition to End Stage Cirrhosis, they had Hep C AND a tumor less than 5cm.
The chemo embalization is helping to keep your tumor small enough not to cause you to be dropped from elegibility. They can do that again if need by, by the way.
I worry about
your moving nearUCLA. But maybe you are in CA already...and I worry because the average wait times and MELD scores are longer and higher than some other places!!!!!
I read something awful here once...choose a state with no motorcycle helmut laws...all that freedom to choose causes extra traumas (silly motorcycle drivers).
We see our Veterans are not transplanted until the mid to high 30s.
Note that not only blood type is a factor...weight and time on the list are other factors. And they want as much matching stuff from the donor as possible...identical twin would be best!
What is your MELD now? Is your center using the modified MELD that includes sodium level?
Hospital stay after transplant = depends on how sick you are going in. Those in pretty good shape...a week or a bit more. Some, however, who have gone way downhill before face long hospitalizations and longer recuperations.
There are lots of labs and check ups after. 2ce a week, 1ce a month, 1ce a quarter, 1ce year...and the progression along the way varies by the variable health of the recipient. Some folks sail through this and go back to work in 3 months. Others are disabled forevery. Who knows.
The alternative if transplantation is not available for you...sorry...what ever additional chemo or resection can be arranged locally...or go to India where you can buy a liver lobe.
Tough answer. Sorry.
Best,
Mama Lama