Keith, hi again....it sounds like you have a good team.
My husband had TIPS first. And then we began the process to get approval for the transplant list.
If you don't know your MELD and are going to face transplant, you want to find out where you stand. Some transplant centers will determine you are too early to list if your MELD is too low. One poster here was told they were too early in CA, but her husband's MELD was higher than my husband in AZ. We are in the same region.
Each transplant center has a different MELD at which they transplant. One poster, Mae, moved her brother Richard from MA to FL to obtain a transplant sooner than they could. When MELD gets higher, you will get sicker.
Your doctor and hospital do not determine if you are sick enough to move to the top of the list, although there are exception pts if you get liver cancer. Organs are allocated by region, and based on MELD and UNOS. Here is some info that will help you with that part.
www.unos.org/docs/MELD_PELD.pdfWe have no idea when/if a cancer will appear, or if his MELD will shoot up suddenly, as it can. But we have done all we can to fight to this stage, and we keep on. One thing I would say....you need a plan B. If you get HE, you won't be able to work...and as your liver declines, your health will as well. Can you pay rent if no one works? Think through all of this and do what you can to find out worst case options. It stinks, but most here have faced some hard truths to get to this point. Big hugs....