Dear Shven and Pink Grandma,
I received a liver transplance l 1/2 years ago. I became very ill and my husband was my care giver. It is an exhausting job and takes a very special person, to give such emotion and care, draining you of everything. Your efforts do pay off in the end. I was lucky enough to be given the great gift of life from a 32 year old donar. She was in an auto accident, that is all that I know. My heart goes out to her family. I tried to communicate with them, to give them my love and my grief for their loss, as I, too, had lost my 27 year old son just the year prior to this. He, too, donated his organs, saving many lives the night he went to heaven on August 24th, 2003. I became ill just 3 months after loosing my son, due to stress or whatever, with cancer. Having surgury to remove a 9 lb. tumor attached to my spleen, I then started CHOP chemo therapy. It was a very strong therapy and caused my already diseased liver to go into failure. I had been diagnosed with Hep C in 1991. This was inactive for years and then remained in the mild stage. I first started to feel very sick to my stomach, not able to eat, loosing weight. I was unable to go to the bathroom. I ended up at the emergency room with amonia levels well over 100, not knowing how to do anything. I did not know I hadn't been urinating or having bowel movements. I guess I was too confused to realize this. It happened very quickly. To make a long story quick, no hospital in the area of D.C., Maryland, Virginia would help me, as I had cancer and I needed a liver transplant. I found the Mayo clinic in Jacksonville, Fla. and it changed my life. They accedpted me, regardless of being a risk. I did everything my doctor at Johns Hopkins told me to do to extend my life to wait for a 2 year remission period for my cancer, then I was put on the list in Florida. It only took 2 months and 9 days for a transplant! Had I stayed in the area I lived, I would never have gotten on the list, and even if I did, it would have been a minimum 3 year wait and I had only 1 year to live, and I had already stretched this to 2 years. I was very ill. I met many, many people that had insurance issues, other health issues, that other hospitals turned away, and Mayo clinic helped saved their lives. Look them up on the web. They are truly remarkable. Good luck to you both. I know what it is like to go through the heart ache of loosing someone you love and also the fight it takes to survice an illness that is out to beat you, but you just don't let it.
God speed.