Hello, Blueyes, and welcome to the forum! Is your dad taking Lactulose or Enulose for the encephalopathy? The behavioral changes you mention sound like uncontrolled encephalopathy. I believe that he probably also has cirrhosis. Is he seeing a hepatologist for his liver disease?
As long as he drinks alcohol, nothing is going to help him. If he stops (and stays stopped), he has a chance at stabilizing the disease. He could even qualify for evaluation for a liver transplant--but not as long as he continues to drink.
You or your mom will probably have to get Power of Attorney in order to have the medical records released to you (or her.)
I suggest you read the information in the folder at the top of the page entitled Hepatitis Resources. You will know more what to expect from the information given there. Also read some of the older posts regarding liver disease and alcohol.
Lastly, you might want to check out the Caregiver's thread for support.
Hugs,
Connie