NST, your MIL sounds like an amazing woman. Thank you for your lovely posts to Cindy.
Cindy, how long has your mom been sober now? There does tend to be a stigma attached to those with liver disease caused by alcohol. It takes getting some time and space from the last drink to have people (even doctors) view you differently. My liver disease is caused by hep C which I contracted over 40 yrs. ago from IV drug use. Fortunately, there's been a long enough period of time from that and also from my last drink in '86 so that I don't get that sort of mistreatment. But doctors do see an awful lot of people with alcoholic cirrhosis or ESLD that continue to drink in spite of how sick they are.
If your mom doesn't like the Ensure, try Slim Fast shakes. It has virtually the same amounts of vitamins and minerals as Ensure, but has less calories and tastes a heck of a lot better. I lived on those and soup during cancer treatment and post-surgery.
Hugs,
Connie