Natty, get in a stock of S.F. popcycles of various flavors. They will help keep her hydrated. After surgery, when I was on a fluid diet, I ate lots of them. Try a twist of lemon in the water. I know it's tiring, but you will have to keep her drinking water (from a straw) around the clock. The other suggestions about
wipes, etc. , are good ones. You might also try some A&D ointment or another type for diaper rash--or even a thin coat of Vaseline around her anus to prevent rawness and skin breakdown.
I know it's not fun and you guys do need a break. I hope you get one soon, in some form.
Hugs,
Connie