Posted 1/5/2015 10:18 PM (GMT 0)
Amen, Brother David!
Medically, I am going downhill. I have two hernias. An umbilical hernia and another hernia located far down on my abdomen, almost where my right leg meets my body. That is the problem hernia.
It used to stay in. Or I could use a wide elastic belt around that area, and that would keep my intestines from popping through the muscle wall. But now, I cannot stand up without it popping out. I was just sitting up on the couch, on the phone, and I started laughing, and poof, it popped out.
I do not generally feel it when it is popping out, but within 30 seconds or so, the pain starts spreading all over my stomach -around the umbilical hernia, which then also pops out more than it usually is. If I do not lie down and get that lump back in, the pain gets worse and worse, and more and more intestine starts coming through the hernia hole.
Twice, when the hernia popped out, I just kept doing what I was doing through the pain, figuring I would just push the thing in when I was done, but I have learned that that is a big mistake. Both times I did that, I wound up in the hospital needing pain meds to relax enough to get the giant sized lump of intestines to go back in where it belonged. It was very bad. I was yelling in pain for a couple of hours until they got the morphine into me. So, I am not doing that again.
Now, the opening in the muscle wall must have enlarged, because the darn thing pops pretty much any time I try to move. I cannot do anything other than sit or lie down without it popping out. I am a stay at home mother. I cannot do my job with this condition. It is extremely frustrating.
I have a 15 year old son who is the best kid ever. But he has not been raised to make meals or run a home. He knows how to do most tasks around the house, but he would prefer not to do them. Plus, having him take more responsibility puts even more stress on him - just adding to the stress of having a mother who needs a liver transplant. He works hard in school and in general, he is growing up very nicely. My ex-husband and I divorced several years ago, so we already put him through that trauma. Now his mother needs a new liver. Sigh. Oh and now she can't walk. Great. Just Great.
Anyway, I've tried some belts and tight undergarments to hold the hernia in and they simply do not work. Do any of you think there might be some sort of special physical therapist, or someone who works an making braces and the like for handicapped people that might be able to help? I called my hepatologist, to see if he had any ideas, but he has not called me back yet. In the past, I could live with the hernia. Now, the hernia is causing a paradigm shift in the way I am going to have to live my life. I am going to need WAY more assistance. OMG, I hate having to rely on others like that.