Hi Doodlebee,
The only time I get the malar rash is when I'm in the sun alot. I will get a itchy, bumpy rash on my forearms, chest and upper thighs as well. I was just looking at some old photos last night from my parents house that were taken when I was 20, that was 12 years before being dx'd with lupus and I had the malar rash then. I was in the Air Force station in Bioloxi Ms. and was at the beach all the time....hmmm.
I hope your appt goes well and you get some answers. Take care and keep us updated. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Babs