Hi Cielo,
When I was first diagnosed with Lupus in March of 2009 was on birth control. Basically I had been on it most of my life since I was 18 years old, except for my two pregnancies when I was 30 and 32. My rhuemy didn't have a problem with it because my ob/gyn wanted me to stay on it because I was starting to enter into perimenopause (I was 48 then) and she said the estrogen was needed to protect my bones because we all know that we really start to experience more bone loss through menopause. It seemed like everytime I went off it to have my period I would flare some what and my rhuemy seemed to think that it obviously was the change in the hormonal balance at that time. Last fall I saw my ob/gyn and she seemed to feel that I would do well by taking hormones daily to prevent a monthly period. I take Cenestin and Prometrium everyday, haven't had a period and it seems like because I keep my body regulated daily I have less problems with what I call mini-flares. My rhuemy is fine with it, but of course, we all have individual situations that have to be addressed by your team of doctors. Hope you find the right answer.
Hugs and Angels,
Lynnette
DX - sle and carpal tunnel
RX - plaquenil, prednisone, lisiniprol, etolodac, darvocet when needed, cenestin and prometrium and daily vitamins