Hi! Vicki,
Welcome and so glad you found us. It helped me alot to read old forum threads and make a list of questions for my family dr. When I got to a rheumatologist, I had had time to construct a time line of my symptoms, and get copies of all the abnormal tests I had ever had to plug into it. I actually typed it out and handed it to him. I read everything about autoimmune illness that I could find. I borrowed every book on lupus and APS the library could find for me. So many of us here never get a conclusive diagnosis. What's important is that you don't stop looking, and find a dr. who will help manage your symptoms. Don't give up and keep us posted.
Hugs, and good luck,
suetoo