HippiMom,
I take Xanax for anxiety and to help sleep. I take .5 to 1 mg/day, divided up in two or three doses. I had to take much more when I was still on Prednisone.
I started Lexapro a few months back, and in addition to helping GREATLY with depression it has lessened my anxiety and I take less Xanax these days.
The Xanax and Lexapro are prescribed by a psychiatrist, whom I see in person every six months.
My PCP or rheumy probably would prescribe Xanax short-term if I asked, but since I have been taking it for years and also am taking the antidepressant, both drugs are supervised by the psychiatrist.
Benzodiazepenes can be addictive, but I do want to say that I've been on them at much higher doses years ago and did not have any psychological or physical problems when tapering and even discontinuing Xanax (under my doctor's supervision, of course).
I'm sorry to know that you are feeling stress and anxiety and hope you find relief soon.
Laura