Hi Belinda,
Welcome to the forum. I'm sorry your dealing with all these diseases. This is a wonderful place for support and friendship.
I was disabled at 40 as well. It was very hard to accept and I still struggle with it at times but life goes on and I'm doing pretty good at 50.... . I hope you like it here and make alot of friends. Please take care and feel free to ask all the questions you want and share anything with us. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Babs