Thanks Always Rosie & Barb for your replies.
My wrist does seem slightly less "locked" than it was. I'm still getting the pain but hoping that too will ease. I have an urgent appointment tomorrow with my own rheumy, i rang this morning and he told me to come tomorrow, now I'm impressed with that! I'm pleased to be seen so quickly because he can see the state my skin is in too. I was outside over the weekend speaking to my neighbour and I didn't realise just how long i was out there. needless to say it was a bad idea. Covered in prickly heat, large lesions on my hands & fingers and some of them have become infected! One of the mums at my daughters school thought i had chicken pox! Anyway, not feeling so down today so on the up I hope. Go tomorrow, get proper checks & care, then go Friday to have a proceedure under anesthetic for my bowel. They are going to take biopsies and do an examination to determine if the lupus is causing the bowel problems. Hey, next week I may be cured!! My hubby said if i was an animal they would have put me down by now . Take care, will post soon. It was nice to hear from you both, i miss the site and everyone on here but just haven't been able to get on too much lately.