Hi Sheryl,
Welcome to the forum. You have found a great group of people here. They have helped me through some rough times. They are awsome!
It sounds like you have your plate full and then some...((Hugs)). Know that we are here for you and will help you in anyway possible. Please hang in there and take care of yourself during all this. Updated us when you can. You and your hubby will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Babs