Do you guys think I should consider Lyme disease for my 1-year-old nephew?
His father definitely had/has Lyme disease. He's one of those people who got the bull's eye and was treated, then was fine...a few years later he had a flare - either reinfected or reactivated infection...personally I have a gut feeling it's still working on him - I mean he's still a non-stop workaholic, but he's always tired, very forgetful, and complains of knee pain which may or may not be job-related.
My sister has undifferentiated connective tissue disorder aka "pre-lupus/pre-RA". I've hinted that I suspect Lyme - but I don't want to push, especially since she's been doing pretty well on her treatment and now is not the time to make any changes if she doesn't have to...but I mean I'm sure you guys see all the same red flags I do.
My nephew has been unexplainably sick more than I'd expect by chance in the short year he's been here. He is the happiest baby (and the chubbiest!) - and such a good baby. He's back in the ER again for the high fever and wheezing, he's been on a nebulizer for most of his life - I mean babies obviously can't be like, "Mommy, I have knee pain and brain fog!" (considering all he says so far is "dadadada!") ...so could all of these asthma-like symptoms be Lyme-related? (No one in the family has asthma - except for ME, sort of - I was diagnosed with it at 12 right at the height of my Lyme symptoms - I don't have it now but they assumed that's what was going on with my breathing problems). He also has recurring ear infections, which is like having sinus infections for babies (they don't have sinuses yet - how weird is that?) ...he just reminds me of the baby version of me when I was 12 and started getting sick.
Sorry this is a little scatter-brained, but it's a really confusing situation and his doctor isn't really concerned but I just have this feeling...and after all the posts lately about whether or not to tell people they might have Lyme, and about how it can be passed congenitally...I think I have to step in and try to help my favorite little boy. I don't think my sister and brother in law are going to take it seriously - they might even get mad at me, but I just have this knot in my stomach, this gut feeling that this needs to be looked into. What do you guys think?