Well, Joni, I had a lengthy, well-written response to your post written, and left the page to get a link to share with you, and lost the entire post. That's what I get trying to do everything on my so-called "smart"'phone! ;)
Basically, I just wanted to say that I understand both sides of this, as a parent and as a Lyme patient.
I'm currently seeking pain management because my rheumatologist was furious when he found out I was being treated for Lyme. He was prescribing my medications for pain.
I was prescribed Valium briefly, and along with hydrocodone I was able to do more than I had in well over a year. I took my son for walks...to the park, the library, etc. I felt so much better mentally, and I think that's an important part of this healing process. The pain of Lyme is cruel and unrelenting. I know that it makes it even harder, knowing that I'd finally found medications that gave me some "freedom" from the pain, and now I no longer have it. I still take hydrocodone, but the Valium in combination was so helpful, not only with the muscle spams (the reason it was Rx'ed), but also with the nerve pain. It's harder now knowing that I found something that actually helped but can no longer take it.
The ER doctor Rx'ed the Valium and said that is it helped to have my rheum continue it, but he basically dropped me like a hot potato once I told him I was pursuing treatment for Lyme. But that's a whole other post...he was highly unprofessional in his reaction, and it's infuriating, to say the least.
I'm seeking a new doctor and hope to return to taking Valium, and continue the Hydrocodone.
However, as a parent, I truly understand your concern about
your daughter taking these things. It terrifies, (and even embarrasses me), at times that I rely on these medications, but I feel it's what I need to do until my treatment "kicks in".
I may have posted this before, but I wanted to share an article that talks about
the use of opiates in pain management. I know it helped me a lot when I was torn about
taking the medication. I think it's a great read for anyone dealing with chronic pain:
http://health.howstuffworks.com/mental-health/addiction-v-dependence-on-pain-medications.htm
Also, I too have trouble with the diet, and I'm an adult, almost 33 years old. I should have way more self-control than I do! Sometimes the cravings for sugar are stronger than I care to admit :)
You and your daughter will be in my thoughts. Whatever you decide, I'm sending positive thoughts your way in the hopes that you can come to an agreement to help your daughter find some relief until she can heal.
I personally think pain management is a big part of the healing process. Less pain = less stress = less flares... in my case, anyway! :)
As for the Kratom I inquired about
, I still haven't gotten the courage to try it. It's a bit controversial, and I have enough controversy in my life as it is. If it comes to that I will try it, as I have to function in order to take care of my busy little toddler