Hi!
I'm really sorry to hear about all of your troubles, it seems they are not fairly distributed sometimes and one family gets so many.
I worked as a therapist for children, the organization was called "Birth to Three.''
It is a CT. state program, peds. are aware of it and sometimes rec. for their patients.
But anyone can call and ask for an evaluation for their children as long as they are under three years old. It is essential to have a thorough evaluation they use ,a sliding scale depending on each families income, number of children etc.
If I remember correctly the evaluation is free.
Most of the families were paying a small fraction of what these services would cost through use of insurance or privately.
We came into the families home for evaluations and therapy sessions so we could help everyone in the family to cope better. It was designed to be very non-invasive.
They offered occupational therapy, physical therapy, speech and language services, psy. support, interventional therapist, social workers usually oversee the management.
Early intervention is so important I saw babies and toddlers make incredible progress in short periods of time. Their brains are still fluid and this a time when significant problems can be addressed.
I totally understand the problems your child is experiencing very challenging times for you and you do some respite. It is not uncommon for a child like this is have only one person to soothe them.
Many times therapists call it "multi-sensory integration problems." If you know any adults with severe nero-lyme they have these problems. It is like they can't regulate the stimulus that they are experiencing and it becomes to overwhelming for them.
I hope this information helps, I wish I knew what each states do but it is well worth it to find out.
If you have any questions, please let me know.
I will be praying for you and your family.
This information is just my opinion, but I felt it might help you head in the right direction.
Please let us know how you guys do.
Take care of yourself too!
Anna