If you are detoxing properly (there are detailed instructions in the Sticky Thread on this forum called New to Lyme? Start Here!") then you should not be herxing so badly.
Start taking detox baths (first dry skin brush), start off slow to see how you react, and slowly build up your detox regime. If you don't have a tub, there are detox foot baths. Dry skin brushing every day should take at least 15 minutes if you are doing it correctly.
Then there is diet. Learn how to eat healthy and avoid sugars, carbs (they turn into sugar), avoid processed foods, etc.
Hope this helps,
Denise