Hi New-to-Lyme,
Welcome to our forum!!
I'm sorry you are feeling so bad... It is a good thing though to take the bull by the horns and start your lyme journey.
Many (most in fact) of us have been dealing with drs that diminish our symptoms, and are too lazy to look into them.
I don't know if you have read the thread on top of the Lyme page of this forum? The 'New to Lyme?.... Start here!' thread. It is packed with useful information, that I think everyone with Lyme or coinfections should read. There are symptom lists, detox information, helpful links, information on all kinds of treatment (antibiotics and herbals).
As for doctors. A good LLMD (Lyme Literate Medical Dr) is able to diagnose a patient not only by his/her blood results (which are very often false negative, cause testing is to this day very inaccurate), but also by the clinical manifestations.
I myself was tested negative by WB, only had positive 41 bands, which are not lyme specific. My dr was convinced though I had the infection. Months later he did another test (in Germany) that came back positive.
Stories like these are everywhere.
To find a good LLMD, I would advice you to make a new thread, like stacestar mentionned. 'Looking for LLMD in___'. Be sure though to enable your emailaddress (My Profile, Edit Profile, klick on 'Show my Emailaddress').
We are not allowed to post dr's names on the forum, people will send you the requested information by pm.
I don't know if you're able to post a pic of your rash?
Don't loose hope, study this disease if you're able to, and a good llmd will guide you along the way.
Good luck!
Marie