www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=30&m=3095830 This is what I use. It has palm oil too and it absorbs nicely. Sometimes I use plain coconut oil. I know I mention this site a lot, but I don't profit from it in case anyone is getting suspicious. I just like they're products. :) I didn't care for the hair soap, though, but it might've been our water supply that affected it since we're on a well.