Hi Newhouse!!
Welcome to our community!! I'm so glad you found us!
I too agree that you shouldn't just accept your diagnosis if the meds aren't working and others that have Lupus are telling you those things! And since you have a clear memory of being bitten by some thing, a rash and then cold (or flu?) like symptoms - that's exactly how Lyme starts, so you are wise to want to at least rule this out - or find out that's what it is so you can get the proper treatments!!
Girlie has already given you some great information and I'd like to add a bit more for you - don't worry, we all know that it can get overwhelming, so ask all of the questions you need to!! We are here to help!
To enable your email option in your profile, go to your profile, then you can find it under 'edit profile'. Be sure to click the submit button to actually save your preference.
If you haven't yet, it would be helpful for you to start with reading through the thread at the top of the forum titled,"New to Lyme?...Start here!!", as it is packed full of important information, symptom lists, helpful links and pdf's, how to detox when one has these infections, information on probiotics and much more.
For information on finding an ILADS (International Lyme and Associated Diseases Society) trained Lyme Literate Medical Doctor(LLMD) in your area, you can send me an email by clicking on my screen name or the small blue envelope under my screen name. I may have contact information for some LLMD's in your area as well. Please include your state and area that you would like to find a LLMD in and I will see how close I can get to your
location.
You can also email the Tick-Borne Disease Alliance at[url]
[email protected] for LLMD referrals and you can go to
tbdalliance.org/ to learn more about
these infections.
You can also go to The Lyme Disease Association and search for LLMD's 3 times in a month. You have to register first. Here is the link:
www.lymediseaseassociation.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=277&Itemid=74
You will want to find an ILADS (International Lyme And Associated Diseases Society) trained doctor, as ID Docs (Infectious Disease Doctors) believe Lyme is hard to catch and easy to treat, and don't believe in the reality of chronic Lyme. Go to the ILADS site to read the new (2014) Treatment guidelines to get you started on your Lyme journey.
www.ilads.org/lyme/ILADS_Guidelines.pdf
Again, we are here to help you the best we can, so please ask all the questions you need to!!