Just got back from there two weeks ago. My daughter has Lyme and because she's been so sick for so long, and really needs a body-mind-and-spirit renewal, we decided to go to Sophia Institute. Our naturopath has trained with Dr. K and agreed that the comprehensive treatment will have a far better chance of restoring health and not just getting rid of a few bacterial infections. Being sick for as long as she can remember has taken a toll on friendships, education, hope.
Making the appointment was lengthy because I wanted to be sure we got what she needed and that they were prepared for someone so debilitated that she wouldn't be able to manage more than a couple of appointments over two days. The trip alone was a big deal. When we arrived, it was a little disorganized, and the doctor she was to see was a half hour late, but the truth of it is, people don't fit well into hourly blocks, and we got the same extra time the next day.
My daughter liked the doctor; that was a big deal. I liked her too, because she was direct, didn't pretend this was going to be easy, and at the same time was certain my daughter will be well. No pollyanna, no simpering tone; just certitude. The first hour was conversation - history, symptoms, all kinds of things including the potential for the house we used to live in having made her sick in addition to Lyme. Etcetera.
ART was highly specific, and turned up no big surprises, but we learned about
the interaction between long term infection and inability to get rid of heavy metals; she has many. Lymphatic system blocked. Thyroid no good (had blood test, but this is more specific). Fungi, viruses. Several other things.
Explanations were clear and just the right amount of information. We were given a protocol for treatment which was daunting. The next morning the doctor said, Yes, it's a lot. I said, based on talking the night before, No, it's not a lot. It's overwhelming for her. So the doctor shifted gears and spoke awhile about
what's ahead in terms of sequencing, calibrating the treatment to what can be tolerated, the need for emotional healing, too, and more. This was not a lecture; it was interactive, yet the doctor definitely was teaching and supporting, and it was very helpful.
Then more testing, this time for nutritional status, organ function, etc. Another protocol in addition to the first. We discussed what to start, what comes first to keep from herxing, etc. What I, as the mother, wished for was that we could live there, LOL, or at least down the road, and that my daughter could see that doctor every day or two, because she was that solid a person, that knowledgeable, and supportive. But of course we are home now, working out the details of what to take, when, and all that.
Once things are well underway, we will probably arrange a telephone appointment, or the doctor will email with my daughter/me (she has trouble writing, since Lyme). And at some point it will be time to go again. I gather that it is unusual to see Dr. K. himself for several months at least because his other doctors can get people started and handle the more common things; and they reserve him for the greatest complexity and if things aren't going as expected.
I had the opportunity to work with him in a different context the very next week, doing Family Constellation Therapy, and was as impressed with him as I had anticipated. I have never, ever, met a person as accepting as he is (I am a psychotherapist and have worked and trained with other people for decades). He is a master at what he does, has a nice sense of humor, doesn't even really criticize his critics. He just is doing his job. I look forward to the opportunity for my daughter to work with him down the road.
I should say, too, that I honestly believe this is my daughter's one shot at getting well, and I wanted her to go to what my research and understanding told me was the best. For her, anyway (I'm not saying everyone should go there). She has been sick for so long, and I am not getting any younger; my life has been given over to helping her and while I am glad to be able to do it, I am not going to live forever and something has to be done. Her life has become so limited and small; friends have gone on to college and finished (she finished eighth grade and was too sick and cognitively impaired to go back). To not go full throttle on treatment, now that we know what it is, and that it is treatable, would be to consign her to lifelong disability, and that to me is unconscionable. I'll do whatever she needs in terms of help, and I don't want to be doing it at age 80. And, she wants to get the heck out of the house at last and make her own life. But right now she can't, and I think whatever speed we can muster to get this handled, the better.
Sorry this is so long. It doesn't say how successful the treatment is, because she just began. I did meet some others at the Family Constellation event, and to a person, they were getting better, feeling better, glad, encouraged me to encourage my daughter to do even the weird things. I asked them some questions, and their answers concurred with my impressions.
Post Edited (Twine) : 6/3/2015 2:51:11 PM (GMT-6)