Everything being mentioned here could be caused by Lyme too - well, except the high uranium. The other symptoms all can be attributed to tick-borne infections though. Even the lupus like rash. It's fairly well known that Lyme can mimic or even bring on autoimmune conditions.
www.lyme-symptoms.com/LymeMimics.html If you believe you have a good LLMD, I would bring all of this to their attention. They may be willing to treat your entire family, or at least can shed some light on some of this for you.