10LymeB said...
My husband tested for Lyme - I believe he did the Igenex test - and came back that he'd been "exposed" to Lyme but that it wasn't any kind of concern. He has no symptoms at all. Whether he got it from me or at the same time on the same trip in Paris...who knows? The doctor seemed to indicate the jury's out. I am concerned for him, but I figure we just play it by ear and keep him healthy in the meantime ;)
There are a lot of doctor's who believe that most people, as many as 90% in endemic areas, have been exposed. Kind of like Epstein Barr. I think 94% of the population will test as being exposed to Epstein Barr, but most of those people will never have been diagnosed with mono and are not sick.
So there are probably millions of people walking around who have been exposed to or even had Lyme, but for some reason never got sick. I think it really all boils down to the immune system and it's ability to keep these infections at bay or fight them back naturally.
I have a relative who remembers being bitten as a kid (we're from PA, so we were all bitten as kids). She distinctly remembers getting a bullseye rash because her mom took her to the doctor. They never did anything to treat it, and it went away. She never got sick. She's now in her 50s, still never been sick a day in her life, and lives a perfectly normal existence. No special diet or anything. She's not a health nut. She has 2 perfectly healthy adult children.
My point is most of our spouses / partners have probably been exposed long before they met us. I think when both spouses get sick, it is most likely triggered by an environmental factor (mold, metals, etc.), since they both live in the same environment.