Hi and welcome to our forum cm3boys,
It certainly sounds like it could be Lyme.
Not everyone gets a bulls-eye.
Yes, stress can cause symptoms to come out.
Hopefully the tests will also give you some answers but be aware that testing can be unreliable when done at regular labs.
Many here have tested negative before ,but have been clinically diagnosed with Lyme and co-infections by Lyme Literate MD's or Natropaths.
Igenix is a lab that is more specialized in testing for Lyme and co infections.
It is best to seek out an LLMD and you can do that here by enabling your email in your profile.
Then start a new post asking"Seeking an LLMD in your area"
That way members can respond.
You can also email any moderator and we will check our list for your area.
You can also search at :
/www.ilads.org/patient-care/provider-search/We do encourage all new members to check out our "New to LYme" start here thread at the top of the page.
It has helpful information on Lyme, testing, detoxing, symptoms and more.
It is important to build up the immune system, get plenty of rest, eat healthy/Gluten free, mild exercise,no alcohol, and reduce stress.
I wish your family the best and others should be along soon to chime in also.
Take care.