Posted 5/23/2020 2:41 PM (GMT 0)
Wow, that is quite a story. But not unheard of! First, welcome to the forum. I am glad that you found us! Please feel free to reach out, brainstorm, ask questions, etc.
Second, your husband is lucky to have you. Having a supportive partner who keeps digging is the only way some people ever get answers and heal. You just saved his life. (More on that later.) I hope that you have support for yourself, too, as your experience of this must have been terribly frightening and stressful as well. I am sorry that you had to fight so hard, but you should be proud of yourself.
Now it's time to get a Lyme-literate medical doctor (LLMD) in the driver's seat. His current specialist, even if they are great at their specialty, will not know how to treat Lyme. You could reach out to ILADS for recommendations. (Steer clear of IDSA-trained doctors, as they do not believe that chronic Lyme is real.) Most doctors, including infectious disease specialists, have no clue about proper Lyme treatment. It is highly specialized, not standardized, and there's widespread ignorance about it. Folks on this forum should be able to help you find an LLMD nearby, although there are many more specialists in the US if you are able to travel. Some will consult remotely, especially these days.
Three weeks of anything will not cure him. This will be a very long road. Many different antibiotic combinations are used, sometimes for years, before people reach remission. What works varies by person, by the areas of the body affected most, and by which co-infections someone has. (Lyme rarely travels alone.) Immune system dysfunction, neurological damage, and other issues can cause just as many symptoms as the bacteria themselves, so therapy must be holistic (not just aimed at killing pathogens). People use other therapies as well, instead of or in addition to pharmaceutical antibiotics: herbal protocols, homeopathy, hyperthermia, rife machines and other frequency devices, cold laser therapy, flower essences, traditional Chinese medicine, biophoton light therapy, peptides, stem cell treatment, bee venom therapy, ozone treatments, and many other things....
I don't mean this to be discouraging. There is every reason to think that he will recover very well, now that you discovered what is wrong with him. People have come back from many dire situations with proper treatment. The brain damage he has sustained can heal as well. The science of neuroplasticity has provided a lot of hope to survivors of strokes and TBI, and it's applicable in the Lyme world as well. The practice of DNRS limbic system retraining is useful for many of us, but your husband might qualify for clinical therapy as well.
I always liked this article: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/a-slow-slipping-away-kris-kristoffersons-long_us_577c047be4b00a3ae4ce6609
You are not alone, and he is not alone. He can get better. Truly.