Posted 4/23/2024 12:34 PM (GMT 0)
My 16 year old son has Lyme, and when he was six years old, he stopped being able to pee unless I set him down in a warm bathtub full of water. Several things led up to it. First, he flared from his first Lyme LDI dose. Although the subsequent doses of the LDI were adjusted so that they became anti-inflammatory at a weaker dose, it took a while for his nerve injury to be repaired, whatever happened. He didn't immediately lose his ability to urinate. It happened after sitting in the car for a long time while my husband and I drove past houses we were thinking of looking at to potentially buy. I think my son needed to urinate while he was sitting there. I kept on saying we should give him a break. My husband kept on replying that he was not whining or crying yet, so he kept on driving around without giving him a break.
When we got home, I knew our son needed to pee, but he couldn't. It took him several months of LDI treatment plus MB12 shots every 2 days (prescribed by a compounding pharmacy at a very high dose, 5,000 mcg per dose for a tiny little guy who didn't weigh much more than 50 lbs. at the time).
At the present time he is weaned off LDI, and Samento and Banderol have brought gains beyond the LDI, but it has been gradual with fluctuations. The herbs are not only anti-microbial but also strongly anti-inflammatory. Once the herxing is over they are nothing but anti-inflammatory, and I find nothing is better for the facial nerve palsy than the Banderol, but he only takes 4 drops that he worked up to extremely gradually.
Whenever his body is in an anti-inflammatory state I don't try to kill anything with anti-microbials of any kind. When symptoms return I do a tiny dose increase. Mild and transient herxing follows. Then he goes back to an anti-inflammatory state. Over time the herxing has become almost non-existent upon another dose increase.
The urination symptoms have been gone for years, but the facial nerve palsy still readily comes back upon attempting to wean off Banderol. Pretty quickly he feels numbness and pain on the left side of his face.
Although he has been able to pee for years, he used to seem to have a need to have a very full bladder before he would feel the urge to pee. I used to remind him to go pee and sort of get him into the habit of being on a pee schedule. I haven't had to do that in a long time.
He doesn't tell me what he feels, though, unless I ask him about it. I never thought about neuropathic pain in his uro-genital area. I notice he takes a very long time to pee, and he stands there and waits until he has another little stream, and then another. My husband and I can hear it when we're in the kitchen or the dining room and he's in the hallway bathroom. We're kind of used to it and sometimes chuckle about it. Now I wonder what's really going on. I need to ask him about it. It will be tricky to get him to tell me about it openly.
I suspect his medical treatments and tests have probably been neglected since he was regarded as being already "damaged goods" because he has an autism diagnosis. Now I wonder if the medical community has ever yet to this day done its due diligence with his medical care. Or whether I've advocated strongly enough. It's been challenge enough, even with Lyme doctors, to get them to believe he really has Lyme. They seem to keep having a tendency to return to doubts about it.
The doctor who started his LDI treatment ended up telling me that he thought something had been wrong with him from birth, either from childbirth injury, or from a genetic condition. He pulled the rug out from under us, and I had to scramble to find another LDI practitioner who would take him on rapidly.
It's been difficult over the years to get every type of professional to take seriously the symptoms I report. They tend not to listen to me. Because of ABA (Applied Behavioral Analysis) influence, people used to get right in my son's face to force eye contact on him close up. It turned out later that he couldn't easily make eye contact close up but only at a distance, because of issues with left-right eye convergence. After completing vision therapy he easily and readily makes close up eye contact and all without ABA behavior modification being forced upon him.
Because so many uncomfortable things have been forced on him for so long, he tends to think that whatever negative thing he is feeling, he can't express it. It's bad and abnormal. So he keeps it all to himself. It's like pulling teeth to get him to tell me the truth about what he feels if it's something negative.
When he had a headache from Omicron infection, at first when I asked him, he yelled, "No!" He only told me that he had a headache after I volunteered that myself and my husband also had headaches. After saying, "Yes," he immediately followed up with the question, "Am I in trouble?"
I think I need to (tactfully and delicately) try to figure this out now. Doctors are always so lackadaisical about whatever symptoms I report to them, even the ones who help the most.