Hi 3kids, welcome to the board?
I am sorry you are dealing with so many issues. Do you think you could have Lyme disease?
Regarding Social Security disability, it is usually a long process. If you are unable to work, I suggest you start the process as soon as possible. Realize that many people are denied twice regardless of why they apply. You may want to start by getting a disabilty attorney. I believe they only get paid if you win and there is a limit on how much they can collect.