Thanks opugirl and acharms for your replies!
I saw the urologist this week, and he says all of my symptoms are due to muscle spasms. (urine looks great, and after examining me, he feels the bladder is not causing the issue, but the muscles around/under the bladder). I am scheduled to have a uroscopy (sp?) in a week, as he wants to be extra sure the bladder is not inflamed, but given his tests, he feels quite confident it is muscle spasms of the muscles around the bladder and in the floor of the pelvis. Now I'm nervous to have the uroscope done...what if it flares up my symptoms again?
I'm actually feeling better yesterday and today. I'm convinced even more now that this is a bartonella flare!
I have not had a specific diagnostic test saying YES I have bart, but I have/have had almost every Bart symptoms since getting Lyme in 2011.
So, do you think I should get tested specifically for Bart? Opugirl, tell me how the herbs (?) meds (?) you recommended work? Any side effects? And Acharms, tell me your story! Do you think the neurogenic bladder problem is related to lyme? Thanks for your advice!