we all are or have been sick and we are all looking for our best life possible..our *melting pot* of members of all different races..cultures...beliefs....religions....and different perspectives.....yes there will be things said on this forum that you dont agree with...yes there will high emotions since we have all been infected with bacteria that toys with our emotions.....and heres my point...WE ARE ALL ON THE SAME SIDE...WE ARE ALL STRIVING FOR OUR BEST LIFE...and this forum is to inform and help you to connect with others that share your stuggles....even the ones on this forum that came off alittle strong....i still respected their point of view....if someone gives an reply that is "less than caring"...its ok..dont let what others say set u back in the ground u have gained....we dont know what kind of day they had ....nor do we know what they have been through...we are still on the same side....we are all searching for a cure..searching for relief...and some of us searching for just that one friend that could get them over the hump.....we all get nervous when we dont know what tomorrow brings...we all get nervous especially when we are newly diagnosed and dont know which way to go, and to make things worse...the ones who are suppose to help us through all this is argueing with each other...saying what lyme is and what it isnt.......lets all keep our eyes on the prize....lets bounce ideas off one another because lets face it...this forum is all some of us have.....we share a common thing....to be better....but we have all got to remember that we are all "peoples"...lets start helping our forum fam...lets be positive..and keep our members encouraged.....and if you are the one who needs to be encouraged.....we will be there.....