Posted 2/3/2014 8:25 AM (GMT 0)
My daughter is in the same boat, only she's 26. I tell her she's my best friend and support since we're both ill. We give her a lot of support and understanding and we respect the fact that she's an adult. We assist her when needed. I do encourage her to take her supplements since she tends to slack off on them if I don't, but otherwise she takes care of herself when she feels up to it.
How long have you been ill? My daughter has been ill most of her life and was diagnosed about 3 years ago, so she has needed our assistance for a long time, unfortunately for her. It sounds like your parents care about you a lot, so be glad they are willing to help you, but maybe have a talk with them, telling them how you feel. I'd think they'd understand and would work on accepting that you're an adult.
There are many your age whose parents don't accept that they're ill, so they're on their own to fight the battle and have to fund their care and a place to live. That's very hard on young people who can't function very well.
You might want to see if there are any support groups in your area. We have some young people in out group, so maybe you'd meet some your age if you find a group.
I hope your healing goes well so that you can get on with your life.