Hi Strugglingwithasmile,
Welcome to the forum!
The other members already adviced you to go through the 'New to Lyme?... Start here!' thread, and to post a new thread asking for a llmd. If you decide to post a thread like that, you will have to make sure to enable your email address (My Profile, Edit Profile, click on Show my Emailaddress), cause we are not supposed to publish dr's names on the forum. Our members will then send you the requested info by pm.
A good llmd will be able to diagnose not only based on test results, but also based on clinical findings.
If you have any other questions, or in need of venting, don't hesitate to come on, this is a great place!
Good luck,
MarieLS