There is actually a site already for the spouse/ loved ones of Lyme patients. Here's a link:
www.lymespouse.org/ I've not joined, because, obviously, I'm not the loved one with Lyme and my family is like the others that have already posted - they don't really want to hear any more about
it - so I have no idea what it's like.
Although I've tried writing to this - and other sites - to ask a few questions so that I could have more information to offer about
these sites, I've never heard back from them. Hopefully one day, Lyme groups will see the benefit in 'networking'.