Hi Eastcoastgirl!
Welcome to our community!! I'm so glad you found us.
Girlie has given you some great information, let's see if I can add to it a bit.
I agree - those symptoms are far from minor - they all add up to being very suspicious for Lyme. Especially after the stress that's been in your life - your body doesn't care if it's happy stress or sad stress - it's all the same to our bodies. Stress lowers the immune system and allows things like infections to spread further throughout the body - especially when we are talking about
these infections.
Lyme is known to be found in a certain amount of sperm - so you could have been infected on your own, or through your husband (sorry!!!). And, so so sorry to say this, but if you have Lyme, it's possible your child may need treatments as well. The Lyme bacteria can be passed between mother and unborn child, and can be present in breast milk. It's best that you know this possibility up front rather than being surprised by it later, or worse yet, your child growing up with ever increasing issues due to having these infections and no one knew.
One of the many things that we have learned is that there is no "minor" case of Lyme. It's like being only slightly pregnant - it just doesn't happen. If you have Lyme or one of the other infections, the longer you wait, the worse your symptoms get and the harder it will be to treat - so earlier treatment is much, much better!!!
If you haven't yet, it would be helpful for you to start with reading through the thread at the top of the forum titled,"New to Lyme?...Start here!!", as it is packed full of important information, symptom lists, helpful links and pdf's, how to detox when one has these infections, information on probiotics and much more.
For information on finding an ILADS (International Lyme and Associated Diseases Society) trained Lyme Literate Medical Doctor(LLMD) in your area, you will need to enable your email option in your profile in order to receive any recommendations, as we don't allow doctor's names and contact info to be posted on the forum for several reasons. You can enable your email option in your profile, under 'edit profile'. Be sure to click the submit button to actually save your preference.
You can send me an email by clicking on my screen name or the small blue envelope under my screen name. I may have contact information for some LLMD's in your area as well. Please include your state and area that you would like to find a LLMD in and I will see how close I can get to your
location.
You can start a new thread titled something like "Looking for LLMD in the
(insert the nearest larger city & state) area". Members can email you about
the LLMD's that they see in that area if you have your email enabled. We don't allow doctors names to be posted though.
You can also email the Tick-Borne Disease Alliance at[url]
[email protected] for LLMD referrals and you can go to
tbdalliance.org to learn more about
these infections.
You can also go to The Lyme Disease Association and search for LLMD's 3 times in a month. You have to register first. Here is the link:
www.lymediseaseassociation.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=277&Itemid=74
You will want to find an ILADS (International Lyme And Associated Diseases Society) trained doctor, as ID Docs (Infectious Disease Doctors) believe Lyme is hard to catch and easy to treat, and don't believe in the reality of chronic Lyme. Go to the ILADS site to read the new (2014) Treatment guidelines to get you started on your healing journey:
http://www.ilads.org/lyme/treatment-guideline.php