Hello. I don't know about
your specific issue, but Woodland Essence makes an excellent tincture called Bladder Support that is supposed to make it easier to use the bathroom. about
the fast heart rate, I use Alka-Seltzer Gold (order online), sometimes with lemon. For nausea, I take ginger candy, like Prince of Peace brand. The lemon or orange flavors are good if you don't like straight ginger flavor. For general inflammation or for injury, headache, or bruising, I take Intenzyme Forte on an empty stomach, but not too much at once or it might cause a herx. For headaches at the front of the head, I use milk thistle. Of course, I'm not a doctor, so please do consult your medical professional before taking any advice. If you haven't already, sometimes it's good to see multiple doctors about
your concern if the first one(s) won't listen and gently push them for answers if you have to. I hope you can find someone who will help you! Re. the urologist, sometimes doctors will have a cancellation list that can get you in sooner, but imho you need and deserve help right away.
It sounds so painful. Maybe try urgent care? They may have a urologist on call--you can call and ask them before you go. Best of luck to you.