Rhonda,
Wow-so sorry that you had to go through that. I'm certain that you went through and also learned alot. Had to of been way hard. I can only imagine all the things you learned/saw! I shiver at the thought of ice but it's winter here. I really think ill do the sponge baths with some cooler showers as well . The sponge baths are the worse days of course.
Yes uppity, i do that also. I used to do the same. Light candles, shave legs, style hair, it was a real bathroompotty fest. One friend advised me to take plants and music to create my own vacation. Now i do as you said, i run in and i run out lol.
I'm glad to know that is what you do also. So, i'm getting that part down at least. Sometimes when I think of just how hot the water was that I used, its unreal. It had to be as hot as my body would allow. To the point of standing in it until i could coax my bottom down into the water. The hotter the better, I always said..........wow has that changed!
I appreciate your nonjudgemental advice on all of this. Hadn't seen it posted and was wondering what my husband was thinking (afraid to ask). I was staying clean but I was only in the bathroom for maybe 10 minutes (fast) and he probably wondered at times if id did anything more than wet my hair!
I'll make a point to return afterward for the teeth brushing that I usually do with the afternoon shower.
Even the hair will probably move permanently to kitchen sink, I know it would be so much easier shorter, but I guess my hair is the one thing Im trying to hold onto. Time will tell about that.
thanks
kiera