I am so sorry to hear of your daughters problems!! She sounds miserable. I have to say, in my opinion, this sounds like lyme and not MS. MS does not cycle every 30 days. That is very typical of lyme though. You have some indication via Elisa that she was exposed to lyme. Lyme is very difficult to find via current testing. Most lyme experts feel strongly that lyme can be diagnosed with a clinican diagnosis from a lyme literate doctor (LLMD).
I would aggressively seek a LLMD and go from there. Have you posted in the Lyme board here? If not, please do that. You will find a lot of very experienced and kind people there ready to support you. I wish you the very best of luck.